Saturday, January 24, 2015

One Week In

We have been here a week now, and we are feeling pretty relaxed!

The owners of Villas Las Olas have been incredible to us. Dave drives James to the best surf break every morning and they surf for a couple of hours. This is awesome because a) James doesn't have to walk for 40 mins on the beach b) we didn't have to rent a car for the whole trip, saving mucho dineros and c) I like that he doesn't have to go surfing alone - I worry about everything from rogue waves to sharks to localism (none of which are at all likely, but I border on the irrational side at times).

We have had fresh bakes brownies delivered to our door by Lisa (BEST. BROWNIES. EVER. OMG), invites to dinner (fresh blue fin tuna, dorado, homemade ice creak sandwiches), and last night we watched Dave play guitar at Casa del Pintor, where I ate the most delectable Chile Rellenos.

Coffee at our door every morning at 7 am, rides to markets to stock up on groceries, dogs that follow us to the beach and offer companionship and security.....the list goes on. I definitely chose the right place to stay for these three weeks. We would definitely come back.

We have wandered the streets of our little neighbourhood, been greeted by dogs and children who want to touch Silas' white skin. We have found great little bodegas to stock up on basics like milk and beer. We even found a little unmarked cafe called Naef yesterday, an oasis in the heat.

I am in love with our routine .....James surfs in the early am, Silas and I check out the sunrise and beach, play and then he naps (like he is right now), while I read or catch up with emails. The rest of the day is to do as we please, just trying to watch for signs of tiredness in our little man, and spending time together as a family.

Silas naps are still better here, but I often have to help him get past the 30 or 40 minute point, when he stirs and sometimes can't get himself back to sleep. So I am writing this next to him while he slumbers, ready to soothe him back, in hopes that he will get at least an hour and a half. It usually works, but I am trying not to sweat it if it does.

I have kind of abandoned his travel crib, which is really hard to bend over to put him in without waking him up. He sleeps on the double bed in my room, protected by a wall of pillows, and I have taken to sleeping in the single bed next to him. He is not great at night, generally waking every 2 or 3 hours.....this was to be expected considering the travel, but I am okay with it and feel overall relaxed and am holding out hope he will revert back to his good habits soon (sleep coaching will be in effect when we get home.... Not looking forward to it, but I have a plan for him).

Sleep and sharp fingernails....the two worst things about being a parent! Haha!

Anyways, so all is well here. We are loving life in our small Mexican beach town that is starting to feel like home.

Monday, January 19, 2015

YYJ >>>>PVR Part 1

Posted from Punta Mita Mexico, Emiliano Zapata.

We woke up at 3 am on Saturday June 17, and got to the airport for 4:15 am, 2 hours before our scheduled departure. Ugh. So early, right?

Right.

So finding out we were delayed due to mechanical reasons for 3 hours was a very VERY unwelcome surprise. I was running on about 2.5 hrs of sleep as it was so I was feeling pretty cranky.

So with 5 more hours in the airport to kill, we went to find a quiet spot to call home base. We walked the airport with Silas in our new Upppababy stroller (thanks mom and dad!) and were so happy to have it. Silas slept in it and it was such a lifesaver.

WestJet gave us $45 in meal vouchers, so once 7 am rolled around, we went to White Spot and had a decent breakfast, and spent the rest of the money on salads from Spinnakers for our flight.

The time passed relatively quickly, and before we knew it, we were on our way.

Silas was awesome during the flight. I debated on taking a pillow with me, but I am so glad I sis as he slept for a fair bit of the flight, and it kept my arms from falling off.

Once we got to PVR, the customs line went quickly and smoothly. Before you knew it we were met by Lisa and we were enroute to Villas las Olas, with a quick pit stop at Mega for groceries.

Silas didn't fuss once in the 12 hrs. NOT EVEN ONCE. Such a rock star.

So we've been here for 2 days now, and we are feeling mucho tranquillo. The beach is 500 m away - soft white sand, warm but refreshing clean blue water, and virtually desserted, aside from Pelicans.

James goes surfing every morning around 8 am with owner Dave and a couple of other old timers. Dave drives them to the best spots and they catch waves for a few hours before returning mid morning. During this time, Silas and I head to the beach for a walk and to dip our toes in the water and watch the sun make its way across the horizon.

I visited a farmers market in La Cruz with owner Lisa and her two friends Jamie (a widow) and Linda (a fabulously sassy 80 year old), which was marvellous. I bought a baguette, berries, locally make yogurt, hummus, empanadas..... So awesome.

We've eaten fish tacos on the playa, swam in the ocean, watched the sunset, and napped. We've explored a small section of the neighbourhood we are staying in, and been woken by a nearby rooster.

It's been, so far, really relaxing. I am enjoying the thought of three more weeks here, just letting the tension out of my shoulders and back and not worrying about sleep schedules.

In fact, naps have been so much better here. He's averaging over an hour each nap...thank you heat? We have a nice cool, shaded bedroom with a ceiling fan that is perfect for naps. Sleep at night has been okay too. I have been putting Silas to bed in his travel crib, and just bringing him to bed with me after his first wake up around 1 am. I probably shouldn't do this...bad habits and all.....but its kinda nice not to have to get out of bed to nurse. He stirs once or twice and its quick to get him settled again with me next to him, so our rest is....restful. I deserve a vacation too after all!!

Well, its hammock and book time, suckas.

Xh

Thursday, January 08, 2015

Mom Thoughts 7 Months Into Mom-ness.

Silas is 7 months old! And while it seems like he has been with us for far much longer than that (perhaps it was that twinkle in our eyes?), the time continues to fly by with such speed there are days that I truly wish it would slow down.

While I will admit to looking forward to the times when he and I can have real little talks using words rather than raspberries and noises, and I would rather enjoy getting my sleep back, they tell me this time is short,  so I try to just breathe and embrace the days with all their joys and all their challenges (case in point this week with my 3:45 am wake up call that ceased to turn off - there goes my sleep! But the silver lining is that there was no crying, just wakefulness. I guess he just likes being with me).

So what have I learned in the past 7 months? I'll sum up a few points with a list. I feel like these are the things you forget, so one of my new years resolutions is to blog more.

I'll get to it.

Heather's Lessons in Motherhood - The First 7 Months

1. The minute you sit down with a hot cup of tea and open your laptop to blog, your baby will wake up. It literally just happened. BRB, yo.

2. Sometimes babies CAN put themselves back to sleep. This literally just happened. Apparently you can teach them how to do this, and APPARENTLY consistency is key and APPARENTLY it eventually works.

3. Do not compare your baby to your friend's baby. Because chances are, their baby sleeps better than your baby and it might make you question what it is that you're doing wrong. Newsflash: You're probably not doing anything wrong. In FACT, your baby is doing what most normal babies do. It's HER baby that's the sleep loving freak. Damn her sleep loving babies. (just jokes.....I love her sleepy babies anyways, the adorable little sleepy sleeptertons)

4. You will think your baby is cuter than all other babies. Your mom thought the same about you at one point. Babies are cute because if they were not cute, no one would know what to do with them when they are not acting cute.

5. You will feel eternally grateful for local Facebook Mommy groups at 3 am, because the posts make you realize that parenthood has it's challenges for everyone. Conversely, you will feel exceptionally sorry for the mom who's baby nurses 10-12 times a night at 6 months, and you will begin to feel grateful for your little 2 - 3 night time interludes. But there you go comparing your baby to other babies.....Point 5b: Only compare your baby to other babies when your baby is better at whatever it is that you're comparing your baby to.

6. Your patience will be tried in ways that you never knew and yet you will also become the most patient version of yourself (see: rocking a non-sleepy baby for 1 hour and 15 minutes at 4 am and not really getting too worked up about it - perhaps realizing, yet again, how lucky we are in Canada to have 52 weeks of maternity leave). Your body will hurt in ways you didn't think possible. Most notably your arms. And shoulders. And back.

7. Your baby will make some crazy noises and some crazy faces and you will love every single one of them. Except maybe the whiny ones. And it's okay that those get on your nerves a little. Hello, next 18 years of your life.

8. Thirty minute naps are now the enemy. But your baby wakes up smiling and happy, so who really cares? Go for a walk instead. He will likely have a good long nap in the stroller or wrap and DESPITE what the "experts" say about napping at home, you know its more important that he sleeps, period. And fresh air is good for everyone.

9. If you Google something, ANYTHING about babies, you will find two completely opposing points of view. I learned this in pregnancy, so I should have known it would continue into actual motherhood. There are no right or wrong answers, just stuff that's happening to everyone, everywhere. And 3 am is not the time to do your research or to try a new technique, alright sister?

10. You will feel SO proud that your son can lift two blocks off the ground and mash them together, or untie shoelaces, or put a couple of grains of rice into his own mouth. Things that we as fully developed adult humans take for granted, but we had to learn how to do these things somewhere along the line.

11. As much as you love your baby more than anything in the world, you will question whether or not you want another one at various points along this journey. Mostly at 3 am. And 4 am. And 5 am. And 6 am. But by 10 am, you're ready to have 4 more of these beautiful little drooly monsters. Because the love you feel is out of this world.

12. Your husband might think he's on board with the concept of "baby led weaning" until he realizes what it actually entails and he hates mess so much. Messy hands, messy faces, food in the hair. And quinoa....man, that shit gets everywhere. Your dog, however, will love this.

13. You will worry your baby will choke but will eventually learn to trust your baby's superior gag reflexes as well as your own ability to not give him things that will make him choke. But you will likely question the sanity of baby led weaning several times when you stare into his gummy little mouthhole and wonder how the hell he's supposed to eat cucumber strips.

14. When people tell you their babies are sleeping 12 hours a night in response to your story about how your baby is having shitty sleeps lately, resist the urge to punch them. Only punch them with your mind and keep smiling. Appropriate out loud responses should include: "Oh, you're so lucky!" " I can't wait for that to happen". Appropriate internal responses should include: "I hate you". "So much". You should learn to internalize the internal responses.

15. The first rule of Baby Sleep Club is Don't Talk About Baby Sleep Club unless your baby is also experiencing shitty sleeps. If your baby sleeps through the night...trust me, NO ONE wants to hear about it. Except you. I will remember this when it eventually happens. And probably throw this rule out the window and brag to everyone about how AWESOME it is to get real sleep again, suckas.

16. Your son will eventually find his penis and get rather aggressive with it. It's okay to tell him things like "Be gentle to that, son. If you're good to it, it will be good to you".

17. Bathe with your baby. It's such a simple joy and an amazing way to get skin to skin after they become more mobile and don't want to like serenely on your chest anymore. Be prepared someone is going to pee in the bath and it's not going to be you.

18. People will judge you for taking too many pictures of your baby. Those people are idiots. You can go ahead and judge them right back for taking too many pictures of their pet, their food, or you can simply judge them for not having anything better to do than to judge you on your enthusiastic documentation of your offspring. Because they clearly have never spent 22 hours of the day breastfeeding a ravenous baby with nothing better to do than to edit one (or 10) of the 68 photos you took that day of your beautiful little milk drinker.

19. Newborns are actually easier than 6 month olds, despite the insane learning curve. Because they can and will sleep anywhere. Once your baby is 6 months old, the pressure to schedule, train, and adapt your little soldier into the model baby is intense. Basically, you will learn to stay off the internet and trust your own baby and your own instincts. But you will ignore that advice and Google the shit out of everything anyways. And your baby will still be awesome, and you will figure out what works best for you and your baby. And then it will change the following week.

20. Your life will change forever. A lot of it is for the better, but some of it is for the worse. It's okay to say that. You will no longer have spare time to pursuit your endless search for a hobby that won't stick (ukelele, knitting, guitar, decoupage). You will no longer sleep well (I think we covered that in several of the above points). You will no longer be able to go out at the drop of a hat, or put your needs first. Travelling will become much more cumbersome and possibly not even at all relaxing (check this page in about 2 weeks time when we are in Mexico for three weeks with a baby who MIGHT be teething) but it will still be fun and amazing because this is a wondrous time through the eyes of your child.

HOWEVER, you will also experience, for the first time, what it's like to be wholly unselfish - parenthood will try you and challenge you in ways you cannot imagine, even if your baby is a super happy awesome baby like mine is. You will experience a love that cannot be compared to your pet (sorry, Pico. And sorry to any parent who I ever tried to compare this love to - it's Just. Not. The. Same). Your heart will soar with smiles and laughter your baby bestows upon you. Your baby will love you the most for a while, if not forever, so enjoy it while it lasts. Because you are his everything for now and he is your everything forever.

In a nutshell. Motherhood is an amazing, wonderful, terrifying, hard, fantastic, precious gift that I wouldn't trade for the world. I'm so happy Silas picked us.

Tuesday, January 06, 2015

The Sleeping Games

In the days leading up to New Years (which was spent on the couch with pizza, a bottle of Prosecco, and a movie....in bed by 11), Silas had a few nights where he was sleeping through the night....in relative terms. He was, for the first time, sleeping his long stretch and then an even LONGER stretch. So I was getting 5 or 6 hours of sleep IN A ROW. It felt unreal. I was joyful and thankful for this belated Christmas gift. And the energy. MY GOD THE ENERGY I HAD. I felt like I could live with our shiny new sleep schedule for quite some time - Bed at 6:30, Nurse at 10:30, Nurse at 4:30, Up anywhere between 6 and 7:30.

Amazing. Wonderful. Glorious.


As I praised the Gods of sleep and got my hopes up that the days of short stretches of sleep were a thing of the past suckaaaaaas!, I realized YET AGAIN that babies are completely unpredictable and you can literally only count on one thing - that whatever it is that they are doing today, will likely change completely by tomorrow. I'm such an amateur for even daring to hope.

So I had my three teaser nights of what it would feel like to be somewhat rested again, and then things got worse. Of course they did. Silas would wake up after 2 or 3 hours of going to bed (very unusual to not go at least four or five hours at the beginning of the night), and then would wake up again every 2 hours afterwards. Or every hour. Or an hour and 45 minutes. It was all over the place. What am I saying? It IS all over the place.

I spent the first few days of 2015 feeling pretty grumpy about this. And I felt so SO tired, like the walking dead. James wondered out loud if maybe I was about to get my period back after all this time and was I PMS'ing, so I ate him. RIP, husband who dared to speak of this.

So here we are on the 6th day of 2015 and I have to say that while sleep is still a shitshow, I at the very least am back to my calm self. On the 4th, I found myself feeling so frustrated with Silas' lack of daytime naps as well as his crazy nighttime sleeping, that I was feeling impatient and snappy with my baby. Who of course understands none of these things. Why does mommy have crazy eyes?

I literally had to pray for patience and calmness and by the next day, I was back to my regular steady self. I felt ashamed that I was upset at my 6 month old for doing what he can't help doing. And while I continued to cuddle and smile at him and feed him and love on him during this time, I was also a broiling pot of impatience as I rocked him again and again and again while he refused to sleep like he had just days before. WHAT THE? WHY? SLEEEEEEEEEP. NEEEEEEEED.

So. I explained my frustrations to James, and we decided to take a walk. I had been feeling very shut in the past couple of days as apparently I had gotten used to endless the sunshine in December, and the hardcore rain was just such a drag, man. So I put Silas in the Ergo and opened up the umbrella, and 30 minutes of fresh air later, I felt calm and collected and as patient as ever. 

So what's up this round of the Sleeping Games? Is it another growth spurt? A wonder week?

I *think* Silas might be teething. Increased drooling, disturbed sleep, chewing on fingers, and I think I spy a couple of little buds in there, ready to cut. Of course, the internets tell me that this could last approximately 37 years, so I have no idea when I might get 6 hours of sleep in a row again. Probably never.

I am having a little anxiety about our upcoming trip to Mexico. Three weeks in a different country, a different climate, a different routine. I am going to do my best to stick to whatever routine we have nailed down in the next 10 days while we are there, but it's still a totally different environment and I don't know what to expect. The last vacation we took when he was 2 months old, he was so chill and it affected him only in positive ways. In FACT, this is when his sleep when from waking every 2 hours through the night, to sleeping his long stretches. So I am not going to lie when I say that I am secretly hoping that all the sunshine, fresh ocean air (not that we don't get enough of that here), swimming and just general awesomeness of Punta Mita will encourage Silas to make the next leap into sleeping his longer stretches again. And that he will once again be napping 1.5 hours rather than this 30 minute bullshit. Also, I JUST realized that this vacation will probably be more work for me than it would be at home, because home is easy and Mexico is not necessarily easy? I don't know. I ramble and I digress. BUT I REMAIN HOPEFUL THAT SILAS WILL DECIDE TO SLEEP THROUGH THE NIGHT WHILST IN MEXICO AND BEYOND! YESSSSSSS. 

Don't get me wrong, my baby is a happy one and I like spending time with him. But a girl needs some time to herself. To blog. Or watch SOA. To leisurely poop. Or just stare off into the distance remembering what it was like to sleep.

Yes. I know that this too shall pass. And it's really not that bad. I'm thankful for the local Facebook groups that let me know that other babies sleep far worse than my dear one, who is up 2 -3 times a night, and not 10. Sorry, mothers of other babies that are up 10 times a night, but your terrible plight makes me feel better. But if your baby sleeps from 7 - 7 straight through, I don't want to hear about it. Keep your well rested and sane thoughts to yourself.

















Friday, December 26, 2014

Silas' First Christmas

I know he is too young to even begin to grasp the concept of Christmas, beyond perhaps the feeling of excitement of wrapping paper and lights, but our first Christmas with Silas was very special for us.

This time last year, I was just out of my first trimester and starting to relax and believe that we were really going to have a baby, finally. I let myself imagine what next Christmas would be like, with a 6 month old.

And it was everything I imagined it would be. Fun for us to watch him open his gifts (with a little help from us), fun to realise he was mostly taken with the wrapping paper rather than what was inside, fun to take him to church and have him look around and smile and charm those around us, fun to have the newest member of the family loved on by everyone in his life.

Silas handled it all in stride....sure, yesterday's naps were all only 30 minutes (so not what one would refer to as "restorative"), but he remained happy and smiley and lovely throughout the day.

He had his first Christmas dinner in the highchair at Nana and Grandad's and even though he was a little too tired by then, he ate a lot of the food off my plate - turkey, yams and carrots, mashed potatoes - protesting loudly when I wasn't feeding him fast enough and banging the table like a little hooligan. MORE FOOD PLEASE! This one has my appetite.

Next year, he will be a year and a half and hopefully have some words, will be walking and probably a lot harder to keep away from the tree. Each stage is such an adventure and a gift! 

Merry Christmas from us to you.

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

6 Months Young!

Silas turned 6 months old last Tuesday! How terrible of me to be so delayed in this post! Actually, scratch that. I was busy being a mom. Doing mom things.
And......life with a 6 month old is much busier than life with a newborn! Sure, as a first time mom, you're experiencing a great learning curve in those first few weeks and months. By 6 months, you've got this parenting thing pretty nailed down (so far, for the most part), but your little baby isn't content to sleep for hours on end during the day, or nurse quietly in your arms for hours on end either!
Silas is a busy little growing person all of his own. I think he will have a big personality. I can see it coming through already - I believe he will he kind and social and funny and determined. He is just progressing in leaps and bounds - sitting up on his own, independent play, making choices between toys, good motor skills, using his growing vocabulary of sounds to chat....the list goes on. It is truly amazing. 

We are still experiencing a rolling-over strike. He prefers to play sitting up, but will play on his tummy happily for 20 or so minutes.....but then get really pissed off when he doesn't want to be on his stomach anymore. He. Just. Won't. Roll anymore. Hates it. Won't do it. CAN do it. Won't. Someone might be a little stubborn just like his mommy and daddy.......

He's been eating three solid meals and day (sometimes he hates his high chair and won't eat calmly until I feed him on my lap...hopefully this is a passing phase and once we start the baby led weaning approach, he will feel more in control), and is nursing 6-8 times a day. Sleep is decent. He generally goes to bed between 6 and 7 pm, up to nurse between 11 and midnight, again sometime between 2 and 3 am, and then awake around 6:30 am. Occasionally he wakes up around 5:30, and can put himself back to sleep about 50% of the time (the other 50% of the time, he comes to bed with us because that is farrrrr tooooooo earrrrrllyyyyyyy).

Our loose daily schedule looks a little something like this....

7 / 7:30 am - nurse either in bed (if night has been tiring) or in living room
8 am - oatmeal or rice cereal with fruit puree
8:30 am - play with toys
9 am - nap (anywhere from 30 to 90 mins)
11 am - nurse
11:30 - tummy time/ play time
Noon - lunch (avocado, yogurt, meat..whatever...)
12:30 / 1 pm - nap (30-60 mins)
Nurse when wakes up
(If it's nice out we try to get outside for a walk at least once a day....last nap of the day ideally around 3 or 4 pm for 30-60 mins but this doesn't always happen)
4:30 nurse
5 pm - dinner
5:45 / 6 pm start bedtime routine
6-7 - bedtime depending on level of tiredness

It's working out pretty well. I'm fine with him napping on the go (in a stroller, carrier etc) so long as he gets the sleep he needs. I feel pretty good about it. Now....if only he would start sleeping 8 hours in a row.....seriously, anytime now.

Silas' current favorite toys are his plastic blocks (he has just figured out how to dump them out of the bucket, but not put them back in yet), his rather hideous mousey with wonkey eyes, and links. He loves his cloth books that crunch, and likes to eat his board books (mmm tasty!). He will sit quietly when James reads to him, but he's much more grabby when I try to read to him, but we read every day, nonetheless.

Still number one on his list of interesting things is Pico. She is everything. He watches her and smiles at her and she is not into him at all. Poor misplaced Pico. We give her love and attention but it's not as much as she is used to, so she would be smart to let Silas do it for us.....hahaha!

Well, the boy is awake right on cue from nap #2, so I gotta go!

My loves <3 p="">
Dec 14, 2014

Photo by Erik Lyon

Thursday, December 04, 2014

Silas Meets Santa For The Very First Time!

I took Silas down to Mothering Touch to meet Santa Claus last Friday. I was so excited to do this, and figured I could avoid the general mall craziness by doing so. Plus, it's for a good cause - every year the donations go to a charity supporting parents in need. Win/Win.

First off, it was a total zoo, and as I put my name down, noted that it was a 2.5 hour wait, even though I was there about 15 minutes before it started (wuuuuut). I decided to stick it out, and ended up getting him in after about an hour, so it wasn't so bad after all. Secondly, the deal was a $5 suggested donation, and this got you several pictures snapped with Santa, and a week later, the photographer would send you a free web photo (not suitable for printing, but good for Facebook etc), and you can buy other shots as you wish. I took some pictures with my phone, but intended on buying another shot or two off the photographer...until I saw the price! Each download of a print is $25!! HIGHWAY ROBBERY! I don't feel bad for taking pictures with my phone now! Seriously. There is one print I really think is quite cute - Silas is laying his head on Santa's arm and looks quite angelic, so I *might* cave and buy that, but REALLY. That seems steep, yo. But who am I to put a price on art!? ;)

Anyways, Silas enjoyed his experience with what was arguably one of the best Santa's I have ever seen (granted it has been SEVERAL years since I have been very close to a Santa, but nonetheless). This Santa had a real beard, was super smiley and sweet and just adorable. Silas wasn't scared, more curious than anything. There are no big wide grins from my sweet man, but a few tentatively sweet smiles. Just adorable. ADORABLE.

Observe....

This is one I took with my phone, and ran through Instagram. Love how he's holding Santa's hands. 

Another one I took with my phone. Sweet little man! Also, SANTA'S FACE!

This was the free webshot we were sent today. Chins for days. 

And this is one of the ones I might buy if I decide to give in to extortion. 

THIS ONE. I die. Such a little angel. 
Love it.

The rest of the weekend, we exposed Silas to the Santa Claus parade downtown (he loved the lights on the floats, the music, the people - there was a lot of arm flapping in his snow suit), and then we took him to the Oak Bay Light up on Sunday night, where once again, he got to see Santa and had a great time.
Santa! We meet again!

With daddy and Nana (who was a lot more jolly than she looks in this picture, I swear)

Oak Bay Avenue all lit up!

Post Truck Lights

Everyone looks mesmermized by this post truck. 

Santa Claus parade - my favorite float. 

The Zuyderduyns!

The Olivers!

Daddy and Auntie Liv!

Beautil Victoria at Christmas time :)


Monday, December 01, 2014

Sleeping Like A Baby (aka like CRAP)

Dear 6 month sleep regression,

You can go away now.

Kindly,

Heather


SO TIRED. It's been two weeks of up and downs at night with the small boy. All these new daytime skillz have meant a regression in the nighttime department. I used to be able to put him to bed and count on at least 5 or 6 hours in a row but now...I might get 4, or 5, or 3 or like last night....2. And then the witching hours of 1 - 4 am, when he decides he's going to wake up every hour, and be terribly hard to put back in his crib. And so I give up at 5 am and bring him to bed with us just to get a few solid hours.

I know it will pass, but I gotta say, I'm ready for those mythical 8-12 hour sleeps they say come on between 6 - 8 months with *most* babies. Hopefully Silas is one of THOSE babies because maaaan, lack of sleep is getting me down. And I know I don't even have it that bad compared to some moms. To those moms, I say BRAVO. I don't know how you do it.

I wish coffee didn't give me the shits, yo.






Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Silas Eats Things

From rice and oat cereal to apples and bananas to eggs and chicken to squash and peas and carrots to avocado and yogurt...it can't be argued that Silas likes food!

Except black beans. Those were gross.

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Wonder Weeks

We started Silas on solid foods last week and because it's so damn fun to watch him try new things,  I've just been having a ball with it.

After a few days of plain organic brown rice cereal and breast milk (once I was convinced he knew how to swallow things), we moved on to slightly more interesting stuff. He's had egg yolk mixed with banana (yeah that was weird for everyone), pureed organic butternut squash, guacamole, a small amount of porchetta (unsure of that!), mashed black beans (big fat nope), homemade unsweetened applesauce, hardboiled egg, and a few mouthfuls of my smoothie here and there (mango, banana, spinach ). So far he's liked the rice cereal, applesauce, banana, and butternut squash the best. The hardboiled egg went down a little easier mixed with applesauce so I think I just have to perfect my textures with the proteins a little more. At this point I think he needs his foods to be on the smoother side or they just come right back out, so we'll work on that. Either way, my little man is growing up!

Sidenote: my plan was to do baby led weaning but it's way too nerve-wracking for me! I'm going to have to work up to that for both of us I think.

And, as excited as I was for him to try new things, it's meant that we have officially moved on to real poops and smelly protein farts. Like, whoa. Just....wow. The circle of life.

In other news, he also finally REALLY learned to roll this week.  As in, he has done it so many times now that I am now convinced it wasn't just some figment of my imagination or an freak accident. I realized that I was rushing to his aid as soon as he got frustrated on his tummy (because mommy hates the sound of whining OKAY), but that if I just dried my hair or something while he was getting frustrated, he would eventually roll over on his own. And I didn't have to listen to it. Just watch it. And it is amazing. YOU GUYS SILAS IS AMAZING HE IS THE FIRST BABY TO ROLL OVER IN THE HISTORY OF BABIES.

So today I'm making some oatmeal and he rolls over and the next thing you know he has a fistful of cords and all of a sudden it's time to baby proof.  F#@k!

But I'm a proud mommy. He can roll, shimmy and shake his way around a carpet like nobodies business. And he is SO giggly during playtime.  Real giggles for mommy when I pretend to eat his hands or blow on his tummy. Real giggles for dad for just being dad (and also having facial hair). It's so wonderful to hear his little laugh!

All of this development has meant a sudden change in his otherwise pretty good night time sleeping habits. About a month ago I started putting him to bed around 7 30, and he would wake up around 1 and 4 and the up for the day around 7. That was pretty good, though I was looking forward to ditching one of those night feeds eventually. But we were on the right track.

BUT NOW.

For the past 3 nights he has been up every 2.5 - 3 hrs. On a good night, he's up at 11:30, 2:30, and 5:30. On a bad night he wakes up at 10, 11:30, 1:30,  3:45, 5 am....you get the picture.  I get that this is a major developmental time in his life so it's normal but.....I'd like to go back to him sleeping 5 or 6 hours and then 3 or 4.

I bring him into bed at 530 or 6 with me and we have a good cuddle. He is into touching my face a lot (touching = soft caresses and also punching) before he eventually falls asleep next to me. I love it. I love my baby morning cuddles even though it means less sleep for me. One day I'll sleep again. Probably. 

Monday, November 10, 2014

154 Days Old!

And all of a sudden, Silas is five months old!

And with this, he is all of a sudden not needing to nurse as frequently as I'm used to, so we are able to go 3 or 4 hours without me needing to worry about feeding him. It took me a couple of days to realize this, because it literally happened just. like. that! I was confused as to why he wasn't wanting to eat - I thought maybe he was "over" breastfeeding (which makes no sense, obviously) and then it finally occurred to me that I was just trying to feed him too frequently. I don't feel too dumb about this though - he DID carry on feeding every 2ish hours for well over 4 months! This new turn of events is nice. It's easier to get out of the house (not that it ever stopped me!).

In fact, in the last few days I have enjoyed some much needed "me time". On Friday, James took Silas over to his parents house while I got my hair done (cut and bronded - toned down, dark blonde, thankyouverymuch). That took about 3 hours, and then I got lunch, and came home to the exciting tasks of laundry folding, vacuuming etc (It's actually amazing what you can get done when you are not worried about a baby). By the time he got home, I had 7 baby free hours (I had to stop and pump half way through this and got a bottle's worth! SO! This is what it is like when you don't feed a baby every 45 minutes...you can actually pump!).

Getting my hairs did. 

A little shorter, healthier and less blond. 
AND, on Sunday.....we sent Silas off to my parents for four hours so James and I could go to a movie! (Interstellar, it was radical). We dropped him off at 2:15 and Silas was all tuckered out from swimming, so luckily for grandma and grandpa, he actually napped until 4 pm! We got home at about 6:30 and since I hadn't actually fed him since 11:30, I felt like my boobs were going to explode, so immediately fed him for relief, even though he'd had a bottle at 4:30. That'll learn me for not taking my pump in the car with me to pump on the way to the theatre (joking, kind of).


Swimming with dad at Oak Bay Rec!

Looking a little concerned about this turn of events. 



Silas is SUPER interested in what I'm eating and drinking these days, grabbing for my mug or foods. So, today he got his first taste of rice cereal mixed with breastmilk. It was literally about 1/2 a tsp, and it went over pretty well, so we'll try some more tomorrow. It is so fun watching his face register these new flavors. I think we'll stick with rice cereal for a week or two, then try yams or sweet potatoes, and avocados and then move on to meats. I'll continue to breastfeed as well, but this will give him a bit of variety and learning. So fun!

First time in his high chair! 

He's still not really rolling over consistently. He can move like the dickens though - he is a serious kicker and can resposition himself using his legs when he is on his tummy to face whatever he desires. He is so strong. He kicks like the wind when his diaper is getting changed, or when listening to music on the floor. He's our little breakdance man. SO FUNNY.

Silas loves other babies - he is full of smiles and wants to touch, especially his buddy Theo. I looked after Theo for a few hours for Melissa on Saturday, and placing them side by side on the floor was just too much cuteness. Silas was all over Theo, in the most adorable way possible. He was grabbing his arm, and wanted to touch his hair........I died. But only after I took about 10 pictures.

Here are my two favorites:

EEEEEEK! SO CUTE!

SILAS AND THEO FOREVER!

Silas also loves Pico, SO MUCH. He watches her and smiles at her. She is getting better and will occasionally lick his face or hand, and allow him to pet her. He will "pet"her and then grab her fur, which she is not a fan of. It's very sweet and I use her to keep tummy time tolerable. If she was more pliable as a dog, I'd use her as a roll over bribe, but she's not having it at the moment.

James said that so far, this is his favorite age. You can really see his personality emerging - so far, he's a sunny, happy boy with a sense of humor all of his own. He finds it HILARIOUS when I pretend to eat his hands, or give him a tickle or sing to him. He's friendly, and easy going. He likes the pool (he has been swimming 3 times now), and he will happily be held by others, though he turns his head around to look for me. We lock eyes and smile and it's okay.

He is our pride and joy and if we don't have another baby he will seriously think the sun shines out of his ass. BECAUSE IT DOES.

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